Men drawn to female domination—embodied in maternal archetypes—bear scars from enforced stoicism: “man up” edicts, assuming the absent father’s protector role, and filling voids from his sexual or literal disappearance. They crave domination because vulnerability was forbidden; strength became their cage.
Gendered violence, long a patriarchal cudgel, inverts into radical subversion when power imbalances—income, wealth, age, opportunity—tilt decisively toward the dominatrix.
She is in control now, not him.
