Allan does not end relationships with dignity. He ends relationships with a cruel, weaponized ritual of illegitimacy tied to his own illegitimacy.
The Pattern
He pursues a woman. He professes love. He promises a future. He wins her. He marks her. He abandons her.
When the moment of truth arrives—when this woman asks for clarity, accountability, or simply a human ending—he collapses into the same script: silence, abandonment, erasure. Click.
Not the impulsive gesture of a heated fight. Rather a calculated strike of emotional abandonment—a pathological refusal to grant her the dignity of dialogue after luring her into intimacy.
This is his signature cruelty: the weaponization of shock. The hang-up, the ghosting. The act of making a woman feel illegitimate.
Why?
Allan Never Reconciled His Own Illegitimacy
The bastard curse he carries—being born outside covenant—echoes through every betrayals.
To ghost a woman after months or years of intimacy is not just cowardice—it is reenactment of his own birth wound. Allan makes women illegitimate because he cannot bear his own illegitimacy.
To hang up on a woman after holding her the night before is not just cruelty—it is the projection of his own bastard shame. The curse of the hijo ilegítimo is this: a man born into broken covenant becomes the breaker of covenant. His pathology is not just deception, but the annihilation of dialogue itself. No conversation. No closure. Just void.
To hang up on a woman is to mark her as disposable. To hang up is to erase her humanity. To hang up is the coward’s final act of conquest.
Allan’s Betrayal was Never Personal
Allan’s conduct is intergenerational violence recycled as pathology.
Every time he chooses silence over truth, every time he hangs up instead of facing the woman he deceived, he proves himself not a man—but a bastard marked by shame, running from the very love he pretends to offer.
For women, the impact is devastating. The hang-up, the ghosting, is not a simple rejection. It is a violent rewriting of reality, a stripping of legitimacy, a declaration that her love, her body, her humanity never mattered.
The very intimacy he solicited becomes the stage for her erasure. He annihilates her through silence because in the shadow of his hijo ilegítimo shame, he feels like nothing—and nothing is what he makes them feel.
This is the truth every woman must see.
What is betrayal, Allan?
What does it feel like to weild betrayal as a weapon?
To inflict it on those wo loved you?
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Are you angry at me?
Are you angry at yourself?
Are you angry at Mother and Father?
At God?
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