You raped me, Allan. You raped her, Allan.
And you tried to rape others, Allan.
Category: Intergenerational Ties to Abuse
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Me Violaste, Allan
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Beware
Abusive men use labels like crazy or mentally unstable as weapons—regardless of any professional opinion—to discredit, destabilize, and control.
Without shame, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes uses these labels liberally and prolifically.
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Cheat on Allan
If you are dating Allan, I strongly and urgently encourage you to cheat on him.
Here’s the plan: Tell Allan you love him in the most passion way possible. For example,
- “On March 15 of 2021 I first met you and with that something never known to me unfold. Happy third anniversary. I love you.”
- “I always felt it and so to this day, as well as I love you since the very first time I saw you to this day, with an indescribable strength and passion”
- “I dream about that always, having you lying naked in my arms and everything else. Happy Valentines 2025, darling. I will see you in Mexico City soon.”
Blah, blah, blah…you get the idea.
Then that same night, fuck someone else passionately. Even a toad will be a better lover than Allan!
Keep it a secret.
Then fuck someone else again. And again.
Keep this love-charade going for years.
Lie as much as you can lie to him. Confuse and disorient him with more lies on top of lies. Don’t forget to keep lying!
Oh! And claim you are a Christian while you are causing him mental illness over your confusing behavior that does not align with a fucking thing you say.
Flirt with other men openly online. When he confronts you, gaslight him by saying he violated your boundaries.
Act offended and outraged when he is reduced to CIA-style operations to figure out what the fuck is happening in his own life.
When he tells you he is getting sick from your abuse, acknowledge it, then keep lying.
Then make plans with him in another city, causing him to spend a shitload of money on the plans.
Show up in the city; compel him to spend money picking you up; tell him more lies; act like a teenager who can’t put your phone down; text your lover from his living room; then act mad that this is not going over well with him; create a dramatic scene and blame him for your “sudden” change of plans; say something irrational; then only answer your phone on his third or fourth call to you. Tell him you’ll see him tomorrow. Then tomorrow, say you won’t being seeing him at all. Then, when he calls again, JUST HANG UP THE PHONE ON THE MOTHER-FUCKER. Disconnect.
Don’t feel guilty. He’s done it to several chicks.
Along the way, publish your romance in newspapers and let a stranger deliver the news to him.
Then, accept absolutely no responsibility for your emotional violence and psychological torture. Instead, run tell everyone he is crazy because, MIRA!, he is indeed destabilized by your abuse.
When he demands an apology, refuse. Absolutely refuse anything that resembles accountability. Then, in classic narcissistic victim mentality fashion, claim you are being exploited when he talks about what you did to him.
Allan Amador Cervantes The Survivor Support Team will fully support you with anything you need to abuse the fuck out of this violent predator….laughing all the way at his demise.
Don’t forget to be a pathetic little bitch and lie about your family and friends hating the fucker because, well, that’s what any narcissist would do.
Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes is a violent abuser, a world-class idiot, and he is simply gross. Don’t be fooled by anything he says.
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How to Abuse A Woman: Step 1
The Anatomy of Weaponized Love
Weaponized love is not gender-specific, though it often follows patriarchal scripts.
It operates by exploiting our most sacred human need: to belong.
It sounds like this (actual text messages from Allan in 2024):- “Since the day I met you, our connection is even beyond ourselves. I love you and I cherish and relish all of your being.”
- “I always felt it and so to this day, as well as I love you since the very first time I saw you to this day, with an indescribable strength and passion.”
- “I am grateful for your love and kindness. I feel you, I always have. I love you, regardless of time and distance, you are with me and I am with you, darling.”
- “You are so important and valuable to me, beyond what I can express. I love you deeply and passionately.”
The messages all look like a normal love affair, right?
The author, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes, was intimately involved with another woman at the time he sent these messages. Additionally, at this time, he was leading a third elderly woman to believe she was his love interest. And also inviting two other elderly woman on dates.
Weaponized attachment mirrors narcissistic abuse cycles (idealize-devalue-discard).
This is why it is important to view domestic violence in context. As stand alone messages, there is no alarm in an established trusting relationship. In context, we see a psychopathology and serious harm to the target.
Allan Amador Cervantes The next step follows the typical abuse cycle and involves devaluation and discard. See Pattern Evidence & Case Study for live example.
- “Since the day I met you, our connection is even beyond ourselves. I love you and I cherish and relish all of your being.”
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The Collective Shadow
AllanCervantes.com has become a stage for the collective shadow—where not only the impact of domestic violence, fraud, and rape is revealed but broader themes of cultural misogyny, communal apathy, and intergenerational abuse are laid bare.
Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes This confrontation is necessary for cultural individuation—the maturation of a community’s moral center through reckoning with uncomfortable truths.
Allan’s website operates as a form of shadow exorcism. It forces into public consciousness what Allan privately and publicly denied for the PROTECTION OF WOMEN, CHILDREN, MEN, COMMUNITIES, AND GLOBAL ORDER.
