Abusive men use labels like crazy or mentally unstable as weapons—regardless of any professional opinion—to discredit, destabilize, and control.
Without shame, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes uses these labels liberally and prolifically.

Abusive men use labels like crazy or mentally unstable as weapons—regardless of any professional opinion—to discredit, destabilize, and control.
Without shame, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes uses these labels liberally and prolifically.

Allan sent these messages to me in 2024, two years into his relationship with Pamela Sue Martin. He cheated on both of us.
While all this was happening, he was pursuing three additional women.
