You raped me, Allan. You raped her, Allan.
And you tried to rape others, Allan.
Category: Sexual Violence
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Me Violaste, Allan
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Are Mexican Men Rapists?
Question we received this morning from a reader:
“Donald Trump says Mexico is sending rapists and the implication is that Mexican men are rapists. Is that true? Are Mexican men rapists?”
Of course, the question is asking for an over-simplification of Mexican culture, and generalizations are dangerous.
However, if you take all forms of rape into consideration, including rape-by-deception, there seems to be a tolerance for male violence against women that should be discussed more openly.
We know, for example, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes engaged in multiple acts of rape via rape by deception. Allan represents the worst of Mexican men. He not only helps solidify the horrific Mexican male persona viewed globally as possessing the lowest possible ethics, but he perpetuates the persona.
It’s particularly disgusting in Allan’s case, as he employs as mask of virtue and Christianity, defiling not only women but Christ.
Are Mexican men rapists? It’s unsafe to generalize, but in Allan’s case, yes, and the rape is intergenerational, as Allan’s father committed the same crime against Allan’s mother. Moreover, Allan’s family was more than complicit in Allan’s rape of multiple women: they are collaborators.
So is Trump exaggerating? I know a lot of women who would never date a Mexican man for this reason. But I also know a few Mexican men who are absolutely humiliated by what Allan did and continues to do.
Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes In the end, we can conclude definitively that Allan represents the worst of the worst.
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Violence Against Women in Mexico
Allan Amador Cervantes is most certainly the most violent man in La Pas, Baja California Sur or even in all of Mexico. Why?
Not because of the emotional blood he spilled—though there is plenty—but because his violence is architectural.
He built his violence over years: blueprints of deception, load-bearing lies, hidden passages of alibi. Every victim is studied, courted, isolated. He doesn’t explode; he engineers. Friends and family are recruited as pillars in his façade—unwitting shields—until the structure of violence stands complete and lethal.
Allan’s absence of remorse is the final cruelty. When confronted, he never flinches. He denies with serene certainty, redirects blame with surgical calm, as if the rapes, the fraud, the shattered lives were mere misunderstandings he was too macho to acknowledge. That refusal—that arrogant, airtight refusal to account for what he knows he has done—is the deepest cut. It leaves wounds that never close, bleeding doubt into everyone who had ever believed him.
True violence in a serial predator often lies less in the physical act than in the sustained psychological domination—planning erodes autonomy, deception recruits bystanders into complicity, and denial gaslights entire communities. This creates a wider radius of harm than any single act of physical violence.
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Mentally Unstable
Allan was recently caught in another lie. Unfortunately, we cannot expose it without compromising the safety of informants. But the lie is quite significant, as it involves his immediate family. As previously highlighted in his psychological profile and in “Bueno Allan,” he used his family and friends to bolster a claim that is not just false, but harmful to his family.
We also learned recently that in December 2022, Allan used his poor mother as an exuse and alibi for why he couldn’t travel for Christmas. The real reason: Pamela Sue Martin. Yet, just three months later, Allan told his California girlfriend he wanted her in La Paz with him, compelling her to make a 1000 km journey by car to be with him.
He literally lied to his girlfriend about Pamela since at least July 2022. He was lying when he visited her in California. And he has never told the truth to this day. She only discovered their love affair through a third party three years later.
Three years of confusing behaviors, reality distortion, and spinning lies is a long time. Enough time to establish malicious criminal intent.
Or is Allan just mentally unstable?
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Allan belongs in Jail
Allan created a false reality for multiple women.
False reality does not mean fantasy or idealization.
It means:
- Ongoing deception
- Withheld information that would have altered choice
- Parallel lives and concealed behaviors
- A relational frame that was structurally false
The key point:
She consented to a version of reality that did not exist due to Allan’s deliberate deception.That produces rape, not a mutually fun night at the El Moro Hotel.
This does not imply:
- She was naive
- She imagined intimacy
- The sexual bond was fake
It means the attachment was formed using corrupted inputs due to Allan’s intentional emotional fraud.
Why Allan belongs in jail
Allan’s emotional fraud, multiple sexual violations, and blatant discard tactics caused real-world harm, which he refuses to acknowledge.
The impact of his conduct is criminal. If he had resources worth suing for, that could potentially help mitigate the damages. But he is not only financially poor, he is spiritually bankrupt.
Therefore, the only socially suitable consequences is jail, where he can experience the same sexual violations he perpetrated on innocent women: Non-consensual.
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Cheat on Allan
If you are dating Allan, I strongly and urgently encourage you to cheat on him.
Here’s the plan: Tell Allan you love him in the most passion way possible. For example,
- “On March 15 of 2021 I first met you and with that something never known to me unfold. Happy third anniversary. I love you.”
- “I always felt it and so to this day, as well as I love you since the very first time I saw you to this day, with an indescribable strength and passion”
- “I dream about that always, having you lying naked in my arms and everything else. Happy Valentines 2025, darling. I will see you in Mexico City soon.”
Blah, blah, blah…you get the idea.
Then that same night, fuck someone else passionately. Even a toad will be a better lover than Allan!
Keep it a secret.
Then fuck someone else again. And again.
Keep this love-charade going for years.
Lie as much as you can lie to him. Confuse and disorient him with more lies on top of lies. Don’t forget to keep lying!
Oh! And claim you are a Christian while you are causing him mental illness over your confusing behavior that does not align with a fucking thing you say.
Flirt with other men openly online. When he confronts you, gaslight him by saying he violated your boundaries.
Act offended and outraged when he is reduced to CIA-style operations to figure out what the fuck is happening in his own life.
When he tells you he is getting sick from your abuse, acknowledge it, then keep lying.
Then make plans with him in another city, causing him to spend a shitload of money on the plans.
Show up in the city; compel him to spend money picking you up; tell him more lies; act like a teenager who can’t put your phone down; text your lover from his living room; then act mad that this is not going over well with him; create a dramatic scene and blame him for your “sudden” change of plans; say something irrational; then only answer your phone on his third or fourth call to you. Tell him you’ll see him tomorrow. Then tomorrow, say you won’t being seeing him at all. Then, when he calls again, JUST HANG UP THE PHONE ON THE MOTHER-FUCKER. Disconnect.
Don’t feel guilty. He’s done it to several chicks.
Along the way, publish your romance in newspapers and let a stranger deliver the news to him.
Then, accept absolutely no responsibility for your emotional violence and psychological torture. Instead, run tell everyone he is crazy because, MIRA!, he is indeed destabilized by your abuse.
When he demands an apology, refuse. Absolutely refuse anything that resembles accountability. Then, in classic narcissistic victim mentality fashion, claim you are being exploited when he talks about what you did to him.
Allan Amador Cervantes The Survivor Support Team will fully support you with anything you need to abuse the fuck out of this violent predator….laughing all the way at his demise.
Don’t forget to be a pathetic little bitch and lie about your family and friends hating the fucker because, well, that’s what any narcissist would do.
Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes is a violent abuser, a world-class idiot, and he is simply gross. Don’t be fooled by anything he says.
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Evil Intent
“I sometimes try to make excuses for him to argue with myself that he really is not THAT bad. Maybe he lied because he didn’t want to hurt me. But that argument quickly falls apart because the truth was the path of least resistance; the truth is the one thing that would have brought peace in the most graceful and dignified manner.
No, he acted out of evil intent. He intentionally deceived me (and her). He’s still hiding the truth even three years later.
The lies were not about protecting me. The lies were about cheating me, controlling knowledge, preventing me from informed decision-making. For his sake. For his sexual and predatorial deviance.
I cannot make any excuse for him that stands up to reason. Simply put, Allan is a predator, a rapist, an abuser, a liar, a manipulator. And his family are enablers.
The Amador Cervantes clan are the potholes of society.”
–Survivor of Allan’s abuse
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Bigger than Betrayal
Allan Amador Cervantes Allan weaponized love through fraud, secrecy, and impunity.
She countered with the tools of a nation-state—visibility, documentation, digital permanence.
What unfolded was not heartbreak.
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I Will Call You Tonight
I will call you tonight.
I will call you tomorrow.
I will visit you soon.
I will call you tonight.
I will call you later.
I will call you tomorrow.
I will see you soon.
A thousand times.
The game.
Allan Amador Cervantes The Game
Don’t call. Don’t provide a reason.
Don’t commit to anything and when you do, your commitment meant nothing…always subject to cancellation when someone offered you a better time.
Call, but call so late you know I am sleeping. Or write instead. And write complete nonsense aimed at causing confusion rather than clarity.
Don’t answer the phone.
Don’t read my messages. Or read messages days later.
Say you are busy. Family. Court. Important person you need to see who just suddenly popped into town (remember that one?). Pretend you are important (you aren’t).
Say you love me to keep me hanging on, to make me confused, to cause me to doubt reality.
Avoid truth at all costs.
In the midst of all the abuse, you love me more than I could possibly know, you said.
You’ll call tomorrow, you said.
All along, you were in bed with another woman telling her you love her.
Also planning your next conquest. Couldn’t risk being alone.
You sexually assaulted me. You raped me, Allan. That triangular sex was not consensual. That makes you a sex offender. A rapist. A man who violates women (plural).
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Allan Deserves Rape
Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes Deserves to be RAPED by a Man
If justice is served, a man will strip Allan of his clothing, bend him over, spread his ass, forcibly insert a dick in his ass, fuck him violently from behind, choke him, pull his hair and scream over and over again, “You are never going to forget this,” cum all over him, then throw Allan to the floor assaulted and humiliated just as he does to women when he is jacked up on viagra.
Statement from one of Allan’s victims:
You are a disgusting PIG, Allan. You deserve to be violently raped by a man. That is the only justice for what you did.
You speak of your hatred. You speak of your family’s hatred. You are the bowels of the Beast with your arrogant hatred because I exposed your disgusting violence.
My contempt for you on the other hand is because YOU RAPED ME, ALAN. YOU RAPED ME!!! YOU RAPED ME. I never consented to the sexual violence you committed against me.
You have no humility, no humanity. You are a rapist.
You deserve to be raped. What man will handle you the way you handled me?
This text message conversation is not a threat against anyone. It is merely a representation of extreme harm caused to multiple women and the feelings provoked. Allan Alexander committed acts of terror against vulnerable women and he should pay for his crimes.
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Desgracia
Esta mañana me desperté con pesadillas sobre lo que Allan Alexander Amador Crevantes me hizo durante años. Mentiras, manipulación psicológica, abusos sexuales, traición a mi confianza, descubrir que es un gigoló, un embaucador, un narcisista. – Superviviente del abuso de Allan
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How to Abuse A Woman: Step 1
The Anatomy of Weaponized Love
Weaponized love is not gender-specific, though it often follows patriarchal scripts.
It operates by exploiting our most sacred human need: to belong.
It sounds like this (actual text messages from Allan in 2024):- “Since the day I met you, our connection is even beyond ourselves. I love you and I cherish and relish all of your being.”
- “I always felt it and so to this day, as well as I love you since the very first time I saw you to this day, with an indescribable strength and passion.”
- “I am grateful for your love and kindness. I feel you, I always have. I love you, regardless of time and distance, you are with me and I am with you, darling.”
- “You are so important and valuable to me, beyond what I can express. I love you deeply and passionately.”
The messages all look like a normal love affair, right?
The author, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes, was intimately involved with another woman at the time he sent these messages. Additionally, at this time, he was leading a third elderly woman to believe she was his love interest. And also inviting two other elderly woman on dates.
Weaponized attachment mirrors narcissistic abuse cycles (idealize-devalue-discard).
This is why it is important to view domestic violence in context. As stand alone messages, there is no alarm in an established trusting relationship. In context, we see a psychopathology and serious harm to the target.
Allan Amador Cervantes The next step follows the typical abuse cycle and involves devaluation and discard. See Pattern Evidence & Case Study for live example.
- “Since the day I met you, our connection is even beyond ourselves. I love you and I cherish and relish all of your being.”
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Phallic Panic
Male Sexual Violence and the Terror of Submission
Men’s sexual violence against women often stems from a fragile masculine identity that equates dominance with worth. When a man feels powerless in broader life—economically, socially, or emotionally—he may compulsively assert control over a woman via abuse tactics to reclaim the sensation of potency. Rape becomes a desperate ritual to prove “I am not the one who can be penetrated, violated, or reduced”; in other words, the terror of being dominated himself is displaced onto her. The erect phallus weaponizes the very vulnerability he refuses to feel.
This dynamic reveals a hidden homoerotic panic at the core of patriarchal violence: the male perpetrator unconsciously fears that without absolute supremacy over women, he risks occupying the “feminized” position of the dominated. Sexual violation is therefore less about desire for the woman than about terror of becoming her—of being entered, owned, or erased. By violating her boundaries, he symbolically castrates his own dread of submission, yet the act only deepens the cycle of shame and compensatory brutality. True liberation for men lies not in dominating others, but in tolerating the vulnerability that dominance was meant to obliterate.
Allan Amador Cervatnes Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalytic framework links sexual violence to unresolved Oedipal conflicts and primal aggression. In Totem and Taboo (1913), he posits that patriarchal societies originate from sons’ murderous rivalry with the father, culminating in guilt-driven totemism. Applied to rape, the perpetrator reenacts this parricide symbolically: violating a woman displaces castrating anxiety onto her, warding off the father’s imagined retribution.