Pattern Evidence & Case Record

Abusing Jody

Jody, an elderly woman nearly 20 years your senior and a survivor of the same gendered violence you perpetrated upon me—including emotional fraud, rape-by-deception, gaslighting, triangulation, and libelous allegations—experienced profound shock and sadness upon discovering you are a “horrible man” after realizing the “millions” of text and voice messages you sent her over the years constituted one massive emotional fraud.

Despite knowing her vulnerabilities, you intentionally abused her with reckless disregard, gaslighting her while she was already in shock over your fraud, distorting her reality with distractions, damning the truth-teller, and lying about the timeline just as you did to me. In your text message, you admitted knowing about the article she found, effectively confessing you chose not to protect or inform her, instead allowing her to learn of your years-long deception from a third party, as you did to me, revealing your solidly established narcissistic pattern of abuse marked by no empathy, no remorse, no accountability, and only gaslighting—making you an abuser, Allan, whose actions demand exposure.

Triangulation risks—abusers often exploit vulnerable people like Jody to isolate victims further—so documenting interactions (screenshots, timelines) and consulting a specialist in narcissistic abuse or elder exploitation laws (especially cross-border, given MX location) could strengthen protective measures. Core concept of gaslighting involves reality distortion to induce self-doubt, here evidenced by timeline lies and truth-teller vilification, underscoring why neutral third-party validation (e.g., articles) is crucial to counter it.

Girlfriend Three Years Ago

You told Jody I was your girlfriend three years ago. The record shows this statement is false.

If true that our relationship ended three years ago, or that I was no longer your girlfriend, evidence demonstrates your dangerous lack of appropriate boundaries.

Images on this page demonstrate intimacy was expressed in passionate terms between us until 2025.

Either way, you defrauded both Jody and I for years. You cheated on me with Pamela Sue Martin. You cheated on Pamela with me. The sexual violence you perpetrated on all of us was carried out with criminal malicious intent.

False: Financial Support Allegations (Continued)

The record shows you never had the capacity to support me financially. In 2022 my monthly earnings exceeded yours by a factor of 24. Your income peaked historically at approximately US$30,000 per year.

On April 20, 2022, I created a shared spreadsheet to reflect your request for a 50/50 expense-sharing arrangement. That spreadsheet remains live for any party to review.

You were unable to locate suitable housing that you could afford to pay 50%, so I secured my own residence on May 2.

I bought clothes and shoes for you because I pitied your lack of money. I paid for your luxury stay at hotels, villas, and apartments, including the week stay at El Moro on the Malecon last year (photographed below). Receipts available.

Remember when you could not afford a $250 flight to Mexico City, even as I was paying my own airfare, so we canceled the trip?

My expectation was not financial support: I remained loyal to you for an additional three years knowing you are poor, ultimately accepting it would be incumbent upon me to support both of us if I wanted to maintain my lifestyle.

My expectation was decency. You failed to meet that minimal standard.

False: Extortion Allegations

You allege that I “extorted” you. Extortion presumes that you possess assets. You possess neither wealth, integrity, nor evidence. If you claim extortion, produce the proof.

Your allegation of extortion is false.

False: Lawsuit Allegations

You alleged I filed a “false lawsuit.” There is no such filing. The allegation is fabricated. This is another attempt to weaponize deception when confronted with documented fact.

False: Consequences Allegations

You claim that I “threatened consequences” if you refused to speak to me and that threat resulted in this blog. If you believe such evidence exists, produce it.

You engaged in a slaughtering act of violence on February 27, 2025, and the days leading up to it, for reasons unknown to me . Whether or not you would or would not speak to me thereafter is not known to me.

Public records show the blog you reference began four months later, in July 2025. Public records show I do not own it, operate it, or manage it. I would highlight numerous other administrative details available in public records, but you know how to do your own research.

Your allegation is false, and anyone can see public records reflects that clearly.

Behaviors

You wrote that you loved me 810 times between 2021 and 2025. Yet for four years you gaslighted me about Jody, Pamela, Aurea, and multiple additional women, including a minor. You pursued these relationships in parallel while watching the psychological harm your intermittent attention generated. You now refuse to acknowledge the betrayal trauma you caused or the cost of surviving it.

You added secondary harm. You allowed a third party to inform me that you had violated me. You refused to take accountability directly, and instead outsourced disclosure of your own misconduct to someone else.

After your conduct, you claim my “behaviors” caused you to discard me. Your violence toward me is a result of your value system, having nothing to do with me, as further evidenced in your violence against Aurea.

You did the same to Aurea in 2024 just days after intimacy with me. After discarding Aurea in the same cruel fashion, you pursued her daughter. The young women threatened you with physical harm to force you to stop your harassment.

I will never allow you to blame me or any other woman for your violence.

The record shows who led the dynamic. The record shows who orchestrated it. The record shows who benefited. And the record shows who inflicted harm.

How Impunity Speaks When It Feels Exposed

Your message performs the exact cultural script ethnography exposes: You attempt to relocate shame onto the woman you harmed, insisting “I don’t want to have any communication with her” as if withdrawal were a moral stance rather than a tactic of evasion.

By portraying her as “unstable,” “manipulative,” and “despicable,” which you do to many of your pursuits, you enact the expectation that she will carry the burden your system assigns to violated women—silence, self-doubt, and social contamination—while you walk away unmarked.

Your rant is the predictable language of a man shaped by a structure that protects him from consequence and trains him to believe that disappearing is a justification rather than an indictment.

This move reframes her experience of your violence as instability while erasing your own rape, fraud, deceit (and more).

You extend the pattern further by insisting “ALL THE LIES SHE WROTE… have nothing to do with me”, a classic mechanism of impunity: deny, deflect, and restore the fantasy that your actions do not produce consequence. In doing so, you reinscribe the Mexican cultural script:

• harm delivered by him,
• shame assigned to her,
• silence expected as her obligation—revealing precisely how deeply the system of shame lives within you.

Allan, you expected me to hold the shame you earned; instead, you met a woman who refused to carry your consequences for you.

Deplorable Family

You claim your family and friends “deplore me.” You used the word incorrectly. The word you intend is “loathe.”

This telling detail exposes you, your family, and your friends as people who loathe someone traumatized by abuse they enabled. That is not evidence of my character. It is evidence of yours.

Toxic hearts cause cancer, as you rightfully acknowledged. If the malignant cancer of loathing hearts is what I liberated myself from, then I honor trauma as the price I paid to reclaim my life from your violence.

You then attempted to use family and friends as validation for your narrative, which is consistent with the pattern of abuse already documented.

To the best of my knowledge, you have one friend. Despite your violence against women, which he knows, he remained loyal. But in the text message to Jody, you used him to gain leverage. Shame.

Fantasies of Civil Lawsuit

You fantasize about suing me for breaking the silence you attempted to impose.

International jurisdiction is complex, but not impossible. I am fully prepared to defend myself and to pursue lawful remedies to protect future victims. Moreover, I pledge to support any third-party civil or criminal action involving fraud, coercion, exploitation, or sexual misconduct you perpetrate.

If litigation emerges, I will request financial damages and I will ask the court to mandate appropriate psychiatric treatment to mitigate ongoing risk to other women.

Not for retaliation, but for protection. You are violent. You are dangerous.

Trouble with Ex-husbands

You attempted to weaponize my past to undermine my credibility. That tactic fails. My experiences give me a level of fearlessness you cannot manufacture or control.

Conflicts with my ex-husband were settled in 2019, two years before I met you. Even if I had a conflict with him when I met you, it’s non-sensical that I would rely upon help with a strategic American multi-millionaire from a Lennie Small IQ ,Mexican pauper. As we say in Texas, “That dog don’t hunt.”

Losing an Only Child

Allan, you weaponized the loss of my only child to villianize me, which has the effect of glorifying my former husband’s abuse of a child to hurt a mother — JUST LIKE YOUR FATHER ABUSED YOUR MOTHER WHEN HE STOLE YOU AND HID YOU FROM HER. Do you glorify that, too? Is your father a hero for that, and your mother a bad person because he did that to her?

You also abused the children you should protect — your nephews and your cousin’s child — by using them as alibis. Abuse that you were bold enough to put in writing, so it’s no surprise that you would glorify another another man’s abuse of a child to hurt a mother.

You literally have zero dignity, Allan. You serve only to degrade all men.

I honestly do not know what is wrong with you. Is it simply low IQ? Evil? Or a combination of both.

Reality

What you did for four years produced the exact outcome any rational person would anticipate, unless they were already normalized to gendered violence and desensitized to sexual harm.

You gaslighted, triangulated, raped, discarded, and humiliated women who trusted you.

Your Christian persona is fraudulent.

Given your grandiose allegations of being used for money and help compared to what I observed about your insecurities and your psychological profile, it’s clear you are posturing being a man of means for the sake of luring vulnerable women into your web of deceit for finanacial gain. You lied to me about your finances. You are lying to others about your finances and social media is but one method of your false advertising.

Stop Posturing, Allan

You attempt to position yourself as the victim while discrediting anyone who reveals your pattern of violence.

I refuse to participate in concealing your documented pattern of abuse.

You are a violent fraud Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes.

This public notice stands as a factual correction to your false statements — and as a warning to others who may be vulnerable to the same pattern.

If you have information relevant to the above mentioned patterns, preserve your records.

Public Protective Notice

Clinical Communication Analysis

The Public Protective Notice delineates a clinical micro-analysis of Allan’s communication structure and alignment with psycho-pathology across multiple women.

The Public Protection Notice is not a personal opinion piece. It is a demonstration of how his psychological profile aligns with live observations, using his text messages as evidence.