Tag: elder abuse

  • Naming Names

    When you ask Allan to name the women he has been intimately involved with over the past six years while you have been involved with him also, what does he say?

    First name, last name?

    When you ask him for access to his WhatsApp, including “locked chats,” what does he say?

    Locked chats…what does he say?

    Here’s how to find locked chats on iPhone:

    1. Open WhatsApp
    2. On the main Chats screen, scroll up past your pinned chats, toward the very top
    3. You’ll see a “Locked Chats” folder, which requires Face ID, fingerprint, or your PIN to open

    Did you find Carisa Carlton?

    How about Jody Waterman? Aurea Gomez? Pamela Martin? DB? Olga? Kristin? Claudia? Have we missed any of the elderly women Allan pursues?

    (Two minors intentionally unnamed.)

  • Rape by Deception: Lies as a Weapon Against Women

    Men who obtain sex through lies or false stories are committing a violent act that harms the whole person. When a woman gives consent based on false information, the consent is not real. Her body is being used under false conditions. Her mind is being tricked. Her emotions are being exploited. This is not a mutual choice. This is a violation of her right to decide based on truth.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes

    Sexual consent requires honest information. When a man hides his intentions, hides major facts, or manipulates a woman with false claims of love, marriage, or loyalty, he steals her ability to choose. He forces her to participate in a sexual act she never would have chosen if she had known the truth. Her body is not the only thing that suffers. Her trust, her self belief, and her sense of safety suffer as well.

    This is rape of the soul, body, and mind. It may not look violent on the surface. But the internal damage is deep. Women who have been deceived in this way often feel confusion, self doubt, shame, and grief. They feel invaded, not only physically, but psychologically. When sex is gained through deception, it destroys the foundation of human intimacy. It is a crime against the most private parts of a human being.

    One woman’s story of being tricked into sexual relations with Allan: You Raped Me, Allan.