No matter who he had in his life, Allan denied her existence.
Tag: Insecure Masculinity
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Don’t Give an Ugly Guy a Chance
Women: Don’t give an ugly man a chance.
Physical attraction is non-negotiable rocket fuel for lasting desire. Without it, resentment festers, and you end up staring at the ceiling wondering why you settled. Science backs this: attraction hinges on symmetry and health cues that “ugly” simply doesn’t deliver, dooming you to muted passion and quiet regret — especially if he’s also bad in bed. (Be honest with yourself, you know damn well this was the worst fuck of your life and without the love-bombing manipulation and pity, you would not have ever given him a second glance.)
Worse, kindness backfires spectacularly (as shown in several cases with Allan!)
Boost his ego with a woman out of his league and watch the monster awaken: newfound confidence convinces him he can go for even better. Allan’s fragile masculinity, scarred by years of rejection, refuses to settle now that he’s tasted premium pussy. Despite your beauty, intelligence, and kindness, he’s using Facebook (again), chasing all possibilities, leaving you wondering who the fuck this guy thinks he is—proof that charity dating is emotional Russian roulette.
Allan Amador Cervantes Spare yourself the farce!
“Evolution didn’t wire us to play ego booster for ugly men.
Demand a man who excites you from day one, not a sagging-bellied, low IQ, poverty-stricken, sewers-of-Mexico halitosis, incestuous mommy attachment, low-principled, fake “Christian,” lying sack-of-manure “project” who’ll outgrow the pity that ensnared you.” — Survivor of Allan’s Violence
You deserve genuine lust, not the inevitable betrayal of an insecure man who deluded himself into believing he is a good catch.
Reality check. Allan has absolutely nothing to offer you. He weaponizes love. In a weak moment, you fell for it and now you can’t look me in the eyes and tell me you are genuinely attracted to him.
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Coward
How could you lie so much? Why not just tell me the truth as soon as you knew it? You could have made life so much easier for both of us. It wasn’t enough to desecrate one white woman?
Coward You are a disgusting coward, Allan. The bowels of the Beast.
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Insecure Masculinity
Traditional masculinity bundles three pillars: protector (solves threats), provider (secures resources), and stoic enforcer (controls emotional space). Allan’s claims target all three: He claims he was enlisted to help with an ex-husband (he wasn’t); he claims he was in a position to support a woman (he wasn’t); and he claims he maintained dominance through silence (abuse, see Weaponizing Silence).
When the three pillars of masculinity are falsified, as Allan did, the performance signals insecure masculinity—a man borrowing cultural scripts he hasn’t earned. This often stems from anxious attachment or narcissistic fragility: the louder the boast, the deeper the deficit. See Pattern Evidence & Case Record for further details.
Escalation risk: Men who overclaim competence retaliate when exposed. Silence-withdrawal fails → expect blame-shifting, gaslighting, or aggressive reassertion, such as you see in his claims.
Allan Amador Cervantes Mexico Cultural Lens: Machismo scripts amplify provider/enforcer roles. A man failing both yet still performing them, as he does in his claims, may signal economic insecurity disguised as dominance—common in contexts where emotional safety nets are weak, which we see in his use of family and friends to bolster his claims of hatred toward the truth-teller.
Bottom Line
Falsified claims don’t just reveal Allan’s weakness—they expose a strategic identity built on his vulnerabilities. Treat it as a red flag for manipulation, not a masculinity to rehabilitate.
Disengage early.