Tag: La Paz

  • He said he loves me

    He told me he loved me more than anything while he was inside me, repeating it like a prayer, his voice thick with what I thought was devotion. 

    “You are so important and valuable to me, beyond I can express. I love you deeply and passionately.” –Allan

    But he had already learned her body—how she liked to be touched in that one specific spot, the grind she preferred, the exact pressure—and he carried every detail straight into our bed. I felt it. What was she teaching him?

    I felt her on his hands. I felt it on his breath. In the subtle way he touched me. It was different this time. Someone else’s sexual energy was present. Like a ghost. I felt it.

    My own body betrayed me by responding while something inside me recoiled. Was I being used as a stand-in tonight? Absorbing another woman’s presence through his penis. He made me feel her without ever saying her name. Just in the way he stroked my ass.

    I took that photo of us in bed, in the dim light, after he came inside me because my gut was screaming that his “I love you” was a lie, even as his words wrapped around me and pulled me under. I wanted evidence for the moment he would deny the date and time. That single frame shows the truth: me naked and open beneath him, trusting him completely, while he fed me deception with every thrust. 

    He raped me by fraud. He entered my body under false pretenses of love and exclusivity. He literally told me he had not been with anyone else in three years. Yet, screenshots tell a much different story. 

    How many more women think Allan is their boyfriend and why is he allowing us to think that?

    Allan turned every orgasm he forced from me into a theft, every whispered promise into poison. 

    My skin still remembers the violation. The way it felt to orgasm with his face buried in my pussy, licking me differently than before. 

    Knowing, deep down, that I was sharing him with a ghost. 

    The memory wakes me gasping. It lives in my muscles, in my flinches, in the way I can no longer trust touch.

     He took my sense of safety, my memory of what consensual love feels like, and left permanent damage in its place. That is what he did to me. That is what I carry every single day.

    She is like me. Senior citizen. American. Single mom. Owns a home in California. Evidence of some money. Is that who he was texting before and after making love to me January 19, 2026  late evening? Saying he’s texting his mom?

    — Survivor trying to survive Allan’s lies

  • Naming Names

    When you ask Allan to name the women he has been intimately involved with over the past six years while you have been involved with him also, what does he say?

    First name, last name?

    When you ask him for access to his WhatsApp, including “locked chats,” what does he say?

    Locked chats…what does he say?

    Here’s how to find locked chats on iPhone:

    1. Open WhatsApp
    2. On the main Chats screen, scroll up past your pinned chats, toward the very top
    3. You’ll see a “Locked Chats” folder, which requires Face ID, fingerprint, or your PIN to open

    Did you find Carisa Carlton?

    How about Jody Waterman? Aurea Gomez? Pamela Martin? DB? Olga? Kristin? Claudia? Have we missed any of the elderly women Allan pursues?

    (Two minors intentionally unnamed.)

  • Beware

    Abusive men use labels like crazy or mentally unstable as weapons—regardless of any professional opinion—to discredit, destabilize, and control.

    Without shame, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes uses these labels liberally and prolifically.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes
  • This is not love

    Allan sent these messages to me in 2024, two years into his relationship with Pamela Sue Martin. He cheated on both of us.

    While all this was happening, he was pursuing three additional women.

  • Pathological Dysfunction

    Clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD is a severe, impairing disorder involving grandiosity, lack of empathy, and fragile self-esteem.

    Allan fakes empathy through rehearsed, modeled behaviors, with profound emptiness underlying this façade. His grandiose fantasies of political importance or office-holding are disproportionate to his intellectual limitations, while fragile self-esteem manifests in his social media posts.

    Critical note: Allan’s discard tactics are RARE, almost non-existent, outside of narcissistic personality disorder.

    We emphasize that “narcissistic personality disorder” is not used casually here; such misuse dilutes the term, stigmatizes mental health, and distracts from true sufferers—who rarely seek help due to limited insight. The designation reflects serious consideration.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes

    “Allan’s surreptitious behavior reminds me of “Dexter Morgan.” If I saw a story on the news saying authorities discovered Allan killed and buried hundreds of people in the desert, it would not surprise me . I finally see this man for who he really is and it’s a haunting sight.” — Survivor of Allan’s Abuse

  • How Sad

    “What is Jody Waterman’s obsession with you?”

    “I don’t know. She’s crazy.”

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes

    Disgusting. Disgrace. Despicable. Defilement.

  • I DEPLORE HER

    😂 😂 😂

    When did you first notice that you deplore her, darling?

    Was it before or after you used other women to desecrate her?

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes

    What is Allan angry so about? He’s the one that violated her.

    Allan relied on a coherent identity architecture that allowed him to function without internal contradiction.

    That architecture included:

    • A self-image as a socially respectable man
    • A sexual secret that kept his behavior invisible
    • A family and community mirror that reinforced his false image
    • Control over who knew what, when, and in what framing (due to his pathological lying)

    This structure did not require him to be honest.
    It required him to be unchallenged.

    Along comes a woman who not only sets boundaries, but who challenges him. And when he attempts to silence her, she does not disappear. Instead, she speaks more loudly and to a wider audience.

    Her narrative did not merely accuse. It re-mapped.

    Specifically, it:

    • Named patterns he had not named himself
    • Linked private sexual behavior to public meaning
    • Connected individual acts to family enablement and social shielding
    • Removed his ability to localize the issue as “a misunderstanding”

    She did not attack one single action.
    She attacked the logic that allowed his actions to exist.

    That is destabilization.

    When Allan’s structure collapsed, he had two choices:

    1. Integrate the information, take responsibility and apologize, and reorganize his identity to prevent future failings
    2. Externalize blame and attempt suppression

    His “I deplore her and so do my family and friends” points to the second option.

    Now her narrative lives outside his control. She refuses to accept the silence and shame he attempted to delegate to her.

    Even if no one reads the website dedicated to his honor:

    • It exists
    • It is indexed
    • It is searchable
    • It contradicts his false persona

    That contradiction, which he cannot control despite his carefully crafted public mask, produces obsessive rage: “I deplore her.”

    How is the rage helping Allan? The logical step is to ask him. Unfortunately, he is unable to speak truthfully about anything, so any answer he provides will be complete bullshit.

  • Allan belongs in Jail

    Allan created a false reality for multiple women.

    False reality does not mean fantasy or idealization.

    It means:

    • Ongoing deception
    • Withheld information that would have altered choice
    • Parallel lives and concealed behaviors
    • A relational frame that was structurally false

    The key point:
    She consented to a version of reality that did not exist due to Allan’s deliberate deception.

    That produces rape, not a mutually fun night at the El Moro Hotel.

    This does not imply:

    • She was naive
    • She imagined intimacy
    • The sexual bond was fake

    It means the attachment was formed using corrupted inputs due to Allan’s intentional emotional fraud.

    Why Allan belongs in jail

    Allan’s emotional fraud, multiple sexual violations, and blatant discard tactics caused real-world harm, which he refuses to acknowledge.

    The impact of his conduct is criminal. If he had resources worth suing for, that could potentially help mitigate the damages. But he is not only financially poor, he is spiritually bankrupt.

    Therefore, the only socially suitable consequences is jail, where he can experience the same sexual violations he perpetrated on innocent women: Non-consensual.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes
  • Silence is Violence

    Do not allow the perpetration of violence through your silence.

    The only way the patterns of violence — idealization, devaluation, & discard — go away is through illumination.

    You are not alone. Your voice is valuable. Your confidentiality is protected. You have permission to confront and protest.

    No more violence.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes

    I was terrified of speaking out. Terrified for my family, terrified for my safety. The measures I took…the people I had to speak to…the money I had to invest in safety precautions.

    But I was more haunted by the silence. My silence was an unspoken contract between Allan and I…a contract that permits him to abuse other women with impunity for the rest of his life. And I considered the damage he was doing to my people, my sisters and I could not live with that.

    Many men are overtly violent. Allan’s violence is insidious, nuanced, and experts argue more dangerous.

    You can contact the survivor support team for help. They are not about revenge. They are about safety of the women Allan targets and will target in the future.

    — Survivor of Allan’s Violence

    Incidents of physical assault, Dr. Evan Stark argued, were only the most visible part of domestic abuse. Psychological violence, through tactics such as triangulation, which Allan employed for years and still employs, are a far more devastating pattern of subjugation, closer to kidnapping or slavery, that Dr. Stark called “coercive control”.

    If you are involved with Allan and you are sick, confused, depressed, anxious, insecure, angry, and/or engaging in covert surveillance to “learn the truth” — there’s good reason for it.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes is a master manipulator. A monster.

    Many psychologists are not trained to deal with the impact of this level of sociopathy. He does not care about you because he cannot care about you. Love is a facade, used as a weapon to ensnare you in a trap that helps him avoid loneliness, sexual grief, and his true financial prospects.

    You need expert help to deal with this expert manipulator. Do not minimize the weight of this warning.

    Do not attempt to confront Allan alone. He will explode with gaslighting rage, blaming his victims, using family and friends as “his army” to evidence his righteous stance. If you are not prepared, you will be destabilized by his reaction. This has already happened to several women.

    Reach out not only for support, but for a strategic plan. And take every word on Allan’s psychological profile seriously.

  • Collapse of Allan’s Impunity

    Allan expected her to remain silent. He expected her to bear his shame. He expected what every woman before her had been conditioned to do: absorb the damage he inflicted, protect his reputation, and disappear.

    He relied on secrecy as a shield and impunity as a birthright. He believed his betrayal would dissolve without consequences because it always had.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes

    She delivered the opposite. Instead of vanishing, she publicized. Instead of carrying the shame he assigned to her, she returned it to its rightful owner. The behaviors he expected to remain hidden became permanently archived with receipts and witnesses.

    Allan weaponized love; she weaponized visibility.

    He relied on impunity; she deployed consequence.

    Power shifts when silence meets the full force of exposure.

  • Rape by Deception: Lies as a Weapon Against Women

    Men who obtain sex through lies or false stories are committing a violent act that harms the whole person. When a woman gives consent based on false information, the consent is not real. Her body is being used under false conditions. Her mind is being tricked. Her emotions are being exploited. This is not a mutual choice. This is a violation of her right to decide based on truth.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes

    Sexual consent requires honest information. When a man hides his intentions, hides major facts, or manipulates a woman with false claims of love, marriage, or loyalty, he steals her ability to choose. He forces her to participate in a sexual act she never would have chosen if she had known the truth. Her body is not the only thing that suffers. Her trust, her self belief, and her sense of safety suffer as well.

    This is rape of the soul, body, and mind. It may not look violent on the surface. But the internal damage is deep. Women who have been deceived in this way often feel confusion, self doubt, shame, and grief. They feel invaded, not only physically, but psychologically. When sex is gained through deception, it destroys the foundation of human intimacy. It is a crime against the most private parts of a human being.

    One woman’s story of being tricked into sexual relations with Allan: You Raped Me, Allan.

  • The Gigolo in His Mother’s Attic

    Protagonist’s name changed for her safety

    During the Covid pandemic, Sophie—a divorced mother with disabilities, 16 years older than Allan—moved from California to La Paz. She sought relief from lockdowns, rehabilitation through swimming the Sea of Cortez, and opportunities to volunteer for social causes.

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    Allan targets disabled woman trying to rehabilitate in Sea of Cortez

    Facebook suggested Allan as a connection. His public profile presented him as a university rector and community figure. Sophie reached out, believing he could direct her toward volunteer opportunities. From the beginning, her intention was clear: service to the community, not romance.

    But Allan’s response was not professional. By their second meeting, he invaded her personal space, he followed her home without consent, and he lied about where he lived. Sophie rejected him, but Allan pressed forward, promising introductions to volunteer opportunities. Soon he was swimming beside her, camping with her, dining with her. 

    For nine months, Allan concealed the truth about his living situation. He claimed to own a house being remodeled, managed by his brother, Christopher. In reality, he owns no property and he lives in his mother’s attic. When exposed, he said Sophie could not visit him at his mother’s house because his mother dislikes visitors. Witnesses confirm those excuses are false. Years later, having forgotten his lie, Allan also inadvertently confirmed this is false.

    The deception served a purpose: to mask his poverty and to position Sophie’s luxury penthouse as a free lover’s pad.

    This pattern continued. Allan feigned wealth, spoke of his substantial savings and investments, but let Sophie pay for dinners, hotels, and travel. When inside her penthouse overlooking the Mogote, he acted like a kept man—giving orders to staff, sweeping floors, lingering on the sofa, and “forgetting” personal items when he left so he would have to return. He offered love without action, commitment without cost. Un gigoló.

    The financial imbalance grew clearer when Allan visited Sophie in California. He spoke of building a life together but expected her to fund it. He promised love and fidelity. Instead, he cultivated simultaneous relationships with other women, concealing them through lies: “I lost my phone,” “I am busy with politics,” “there’s no reception in Todos Santos,” “Kenno is sick.” He disappeared for weekends and holidays using his family as alibis while reassuring Sophie of his love.

    When Sophie asked him before moving permanently to La Paz—risking her career, finances, and leaving family behind—he swore:

    “I absolutely want you here with me.”

    She drove a thousand miles across the desert on that promise, investing thousands of dollars, only to arrive to chaos. Allan was already entangled with Jody Waterman, conducting a public, sexually charged online relationship. He was secretly pursuing Pamela Sue Martin in Todos Santos and Idaho. And he was chasing pussy of all ages and nationalities, including a minor, all while keeping Sophie as his sexual doormat and financial safety net.

    Suddenly, in summer 2023, Allan claimed his “rich cousin in Washington” had paid his first class expenses to Washington to help his cousin’s child.

    I want to reiterate: Allan used not just this child in his lies, but also his minor nephews on other occasions.

    In reality, this “rich cousin” was Pamela Sue Martin, thirty years his senior. Allan raved about her wealth and how “he” was paying for everything: dinners, flights, and all other travel expenses. The elaborate lie revealed the indisputable Mexican-gigolo strategy:

    Allan targets older, wealthier women, using deceit to gain sexual access and financial benefits.

    Allan’s deceit-for-sex career carries a critical legal implication: Idaho’s rape laws provide for prosectution for Artifice, Pretense, or Concealment and California law provides similar protections.

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    Un Gigoló Méxicano, Estafador Extraordinario

    Family Complicity

    Allan did not act alone. His family enables him. His mother knew he was traveling to various US states to spend time with different wealthy women old enough to be his mother.

    Maria Elena cannot claim ignorance of his motives. Allan’s own words implicate his brother Christopher and sister-in-law Fernanda, who chauffeured him to airports. Allan further confided that Fernanda coached him on how to build trust and intimacy with these women.

    The deception was not hidden from family; it was facilitated.

    Family must consider their their own position, their own family standing, and draw a clear line between Allan’s disgrace and their households:

    • Protege a tu propia familia: tu matrimonio, tus hijos, la reputación de tu hogar.
    • No te dejes atrapar por la falsedad de Allan.
    • Elimina la contaminación: asegúrate de que tu rama del árbol genealógico no se vea mancillada por el engaño y la deshonra de Allan.

    Allan lied for sex. He lied for money. He lied when truth would have served him better.

    The lies multiplied beyond what one interview can contain. Sophie became ill under the weight of Allan’s chaos. She told him she was breaking down. Instead of easing the harm, Allan escalated it—feigning empathy while deepening betrayal. She left La Paz six months later, burdened with all the costs of migration, relocation, and remigration, while Allan continued to whisper promises: “I love you more than you know. I am coming soon to be with you. Kenno is sick.”

    Kenno, Allan’s brother, was indeed sick. But Allan’s cruelty had nothing to do with that reality. Kenno was simply another alibi to cloak Allan’s relationships with other women.

    In the end, Sophie received a single message that opened the floodgates of truth.

    The pattern is undeniable: Allan lied for sex, lied for money, lied when truth would have served him better. His deceit is not incidental—it is pathological.

    And his family stands by him, complicit in the harm.

    In the below image, a young lady rightfully feels compelled to threaten Allan with violence for his ongoing inappropriate contact with her…three months after he told her mother he loved her…in a text message…one day after Allan was photographed in bed with Sophie.

    Allan Amador Cervantes

    Having trouble keeping track of Allan’s poor personal boundaries? There’s plenty more to see if you care to vomit.

    “Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body.” Ephesians 4:25 (NIV)

  • Collapse of Dignity

    Behind the social media posts, Allan is insecure and guarded

    His motive is to project momentum—to suggest that he is travelling, evolving, and succeeding. It’s a performative play, meant to contrast with stagnation or guilt. The overall messaging signals loneliness and a need to manage impressions carefully. What appears as openness online masks an emotionally sealed inner world.

    Allan’s social media strategy is to establish trust and loyalty. He wishes to appear dependable and admired: “I am fine and stable.” The effect he seeks is reassurance from others that he is a good, steady person.

    Loss of Self-Respect

    Despite the calm surface, Allan has lost dignity and self-respect. He may gain likes, but his internal sense of moral authority has weakened.

    The staged images are a shell around exhaustion and reduced self-esteem. His “travel the USA” motif is not a celebration of freedom, happiness, or success but an attempt to stay ahead of inner stagnation in his mother’s decayed attic. 

    Constant Effort 

    Allan’s social media persona requires constant effort to maintain. Behind the smile and the scenic background lies:

    • Strain and vigilance – he is besieged, as though he must continually defend his ground or reputation.
    • A need to appear strong – the photo becomes armor; it signals, “I’m fine, I’m still standing,” even when he feels outnumbered by criticism or shame.
    • Isolation – Allan is emotionally alone, fending off unseen challengers. His social media admiration does not equal belonging; it’s a fortress of presentation. 

    His mother’s idolization on social media only serves to solidify her co-perpetration: she knows everything. 

    He keeps posting to prove momentum and control. He is fighting to preserve a few loyal supporters. He knows his authority is eroding, and this public mask is his last line of defense.

    So the serenity you see on social media isn’t genuine calm or content; it’s a sustained act of resistance—a disgraceful man trying to hold his ground as the truth unveils itself.

    Gigoló mexicano

  • The First Time

    By Guest Author & Survivor

    The first time someone told me that Allan is a liar, a user, and an abuser of women, I was incensed. Outraged! Furious.

    I responded to that woman with scathing rebuke.

    The Second Time

    The second time someone told me that Allan was abusing women, I was angry. I denied it. It couldn’t be true. He is so charming and polite.

    The Third Time

    The third time someone told me that Allan was abusing women, I paused. I asked Allan about it. The idea was ridiculous, he said. “She’s a jealous woman, she’s crazy,” he told me.

    The Fourth Time

    The fourth time someone told me that Allan was abusing women, I investigated. I was deeply concerned by the evidence I found. I confronted him. He scoffed. I will never forget that smirk on his face.

    Allan Amador Cervantes

    The Fifth Time

    The fifth time someone told me that Allan was abusing women, I investigated again. Allan was lying to me.

    The Reign of Hell Began

    I confronted him. He lied. I confronted him again. He lied again. I confronted him again. He created total destruction and chaos while simultaneously kissing me, telling me he loved me, and making love to me.

    I Left Him

    He pursued me again. Still avoiding the truth.

    I left him again.

    I Forgave Him

    I should not have.

    I wasn’t the only one he was lying to.

    I wasn’t special. I wasn’t loved. This wasn’t the “Once in a Lifetime Love” we whispered about.

    I was someone he was using because he needed admiration and attention. A ticket to the USA. That’s all.

    Allan Sexually Violated Me.

    The lies. The lies were emotional fraud.

    But bringing someone else’s sexual energies into my bed, into my womb. Without my permission. He desecrated me.

    I feel raped.

    I was being used.

    That’s what I live with.

    Then One Day He Disappeared

    No explanation.

    Four Years

    Four years of abuse cycles:

    • idealization — emotional fraud & love bombing: I love you more than you know and I can’t wait to build memories together; our connection is even beyond ourselves. I cherish and relish all of your being; the purest feeling for one another; I always felt it; I love you since the very first time I saw you with an indescribable strength and passion; I am grateful for your love and kindness. I love you, regardless time and distance you are with me and I am with you, darling.; You are so important and valuable to me, beyond I can express. I love you deeply and passionately; We are building strong and deep memories, as well as pages in our lives. All I need and want is you❤️‍🔥; I am fully grateful for having found each other; how important you are in my life and all what you brought to me since I saw you that first time. You are my once in a lifetime.The intensity of my feelings for you is something never experienced before, the force that attracts me to you is so deep, authentic, and strong that stands on its own feet; I don’t want to be apart from you. You can count on me and I can rely on you for whatsoever. We were as two persons sharing the most valuable resources we have that are time and affection, and what I want always to be the foundation of our relationship no matter how it is named, expressed or lived, while HONEST. The best days of my life and it is because you were there, with me, renewing my heart and giving me what you are in the most pure sense of your existence. I LOVE YOU, I really mean it.
    • devaluing — lies, triangulation, gaslighting (You cannot come with me; I was working; I need to cancel our weekend plans -my brother needs me to drive him to Todos Santos; my nephews want me to take them to dinner; I lost my phone in Todos Santos over the weekend so I couldn’t call/text; my mother is planning dinner, she doesn’t like people so you are not invited; an important political figure is in town so I need to cancel weekend plans; I’m translating for court at night; I am in Washington (Idaho) with my cousin (Pamela Sue Martin), I will call you tomorrow, I will call you later, how dare you confront me about such a thing; stop asking me “what time!”; I’m not talking to you about how I feel!)
    • discarding — click

    Shock. Chaos. Confusion.

    Letter Received

    Your boyfriend is sleeping with another woman. Here’s proof.

    I could have Handled the Truth

    “I don’t love you, I don’t want to be with you” would have been good enough for me. I could have walked away years sooner with dignity. With my sacred womb in tact.

    Living with Anger

    Now. I am angry at myself for overlooking the obvious.

    Angry at myself for forgiving him.

    Angry at myself for trusting his words when he said, “I want you here with me.”

    Angry at myself for not realizing it was all about the money and the USA. It wasn’t about me.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes is Evil

    I make no apologies for shining light on this truth.

    I Hope No One Else Gets Hurt

    His public persona is a fascinating study in the art of deception.

    People want to believe what they see.

    4000 Fake Followers
    4000 Fake Followers

    Note on Transparency:
    In the interest of accuracy and fairness, We will publish any credible counter-narrative or evidence Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes wishes to provide in response to the information on this site. As of the date of this publication, he has not requested removal or correction of any content.

  • The Mask: How Abusers Use Public Image to Disarm You

    When public image is under threat, abusive personalities often pivot into “wholesome overload” — flooding social media with symbols of innocence, purity, and moral authority. Pets. Bible verses. Family rhetoric.

    This is not harmless. It is calculated. The performance says, “Trust me. I am gentle, safe, and righteous.” Meanwhile, the masked persona remains unchanged — sometimes existing in plain sight on other platforms.

    Kittens to Kinks

    This week offered a textbook example: one account displaying images crafted to inspire trust; another filled with connections to female sexual objectification. This contrast is not accidental. Contradiction is the strategy. It keeps victims doubting their own instincts, asking themselves, “Could someone so kind really be harmful?”

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    The mask on Instagram: A symbol of gentleness and virtue, chosen to evoke trust and affection.
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    The reality on X: Public alignment with content built on female sexual objectification.

    Two platforms. Two stories. One truth.

    We love adorable black kittens as much as anyone else. While we strongly encourage pets as a way to experience love, we are just as strongly concerned that carefully curated public imagery is an extension of the double-life playbook: Soft fur in public, hard-core in private.

    If Allan has a new kitten, we wish he and the kitten all the best. But we fear the animal could be used as a prop in efforts to curate a more likable public image.

    4000 Fake Followers

    Survivor Support Team

    Survivors deserve truth, safety, and dignity. If you have experienced emotional, spiritual, or relational abuse, our Survivor Support Team is here to listen, believe you, and connect you with resources to rebuild your life. Contact us in complete confidentiality.

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    Note on Transparency:
    In the interest of accuracy and fairness, We will publish any credible counter-narrative or evidence Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes wishes to provide in response to the information on this site. As of the date of this publication, he has not requested removal or correction of any content.

    See: The Avoidance–Image Management Cycle

  • Devour Her Like a Lion: A Case Study in Triangulation & Gaslighting

    Woman is a gift of life, unity, and shared dominion.

    Across history, Scripture has drawn a clear line between what God gives and what the forces of destruction seek to consume.

    In Genesis 2:22, the phrase “he brought her to the man” implies a divine act of presentation — woman as a gift of life, unity, and shared dominion. In Revelation 12:4, the Beast stands before the woman, ready to devour what she brings forth.

    “The beast I saw resembled a leopard, but had feet like those of a bear and a mouth like that of a lion. The dragon gave the beast his power and his throne and great authority.” — Revelation 13:2

    What God gives as a gift, the Beast seeks to destroy.

    Patterns of Abuse

    Patterns of emotional and psychological abuse are clear and consistent:

    1. Idealization — overwhelming attention, promises, and moral posturing.
    2. Devaluation — gaslighting, triangulation, lying, public humiliation, emotional sabotage.
    3. Discard — withdrawal, chaos, ghosting, and refusal to provide truthful discourse.

    When a man convinces a woman to trust him, to love him, to be with him and then abuses her, the pattern moves beyond imitation of evil into embodiment of it.

    Such men stand condemned in the eyes of God, for they wage war against His creation, His image-bearers, and His gift to man.

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    Executing the Beast’s mandate to corrupt innocence, desecrate love, and annihilate life at its source.

    Case Study: La Paz, Baja California Sur

    One recent example in La Paz shows how this pattern manifests in real life. Multiple survivors, across years, describe the same sequence of behaviors.

    Tactic One: Triangulation

    Triangulation is when an abuser uses a third party to provoke jealousy or competition, destabilizing the relationship and asserting control.

    Example:
    Survivors report that Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes used Jody Waterman as an instrument of triangulation to devalue his partner, [redacted].

    As his defense, he mocked Jody as “crazy” for her “mysterious” obsession with him — even ridiculing her for purchasing the same book (How to Love) that his girlfriend, [redacted], had gifted him.

    Jody Waterman
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes

    “He was calling Jody crazy and I was thinking maybe she is crazy. But something inside of me kept thinking he is responsible for her craziness because no woman idealizes a man like that without significant encouragement. These public posts must be just the tip of the iceberg.” — [redacted]

    Tactic Two: Gaslighting

    Gaslighting is the deliberate distortion of reality to make the victim question their own perceptions, often accompanied by shaming language.

    Example:
    When confronted, Allan erupted into a torrent of gaslighting — even calling [redacted] a “teenager” for questioning his and Jody’s public messages on Facebook. This occurred just three months after he encouraged [redacted] to move to La Paz at her expense, while simultaneously pursuing multiple other women, at least one Idaho woman who clearly believed Allan was her loyal partner at the time.

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    [redacted] clarified Allan’s allegation that she did contain herself and talk “in front of him” about it, so his attack served as additional layers of painful gaslilghting.

    Tactic Three: Labeling

    Abusers often neutralize credibility by attaching derogatory labels to those who confront them.

    Example:

    Allan labels Jody “crazy.” Pamela is “insanely jealous.” He dismissed [redacted] as “disrespecting his space” and “trespassing boundaries” when she confronted his triangulation.

    No empathy. No Accountability. No remorse.

    I had just driven an exhausting thousand miles through the desert to be with him – at his request – only to face this chaos when I arrived.”

    — [redacted]

    Jody Waterman

    Tactic Four: Public–Private Contradiction

    This is the “mask” — public morality and virtue-signaling that conceals private exploitation.

    Allan’s posts about Christian virtue, cute kittens, travel to beautiful places, and family values serve as intentional public distractions from his private reality.

    In present-day Mexico — where violence against women is layered, nuanced, and multidimensional — these patterns are part of a continuum of harm that too often ends in femicide.

    Why Silence is Deadly

    Silence and shame cause even the strongest women to collapse — and when a woman collapses, so do her children’s futures.

    “Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and show my people their transgression.” — Isaiah 58:1

    To remain silent is to hand the Beast our souls.

    Speaking Protects the Next Victim

    If you have experienced emotional, spiritual, or relational abuse, our Survivor Support Team is here to listen, believe you, and connect you with resources in full confidentiality.

    Truth is the first act of protection.

    Allan Amador Cervantes

    These are not “private issues.” They are part of the continuum of harm that ends in femicide. We cannot remain silent.

    Note on Transparency:
    In the interest of accuracy and fairness, We will publish any credible counter-narrative or evidence Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes wishes to provide in response to the information on this site. As of the date of this publication, he has not requested removal or correction of any content.

  • “The Beast”

    By Anonymous Survivor

    In the holy book of Revelation, “the Beast” is a satanic instrument of chaos, deception, and destruction, seeking to dominate and devastate humanity on a global scale.

    Triangulating Mother & Daughter

    Today, we learned through evidence that, in addition to exploiting elderly women, Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes pursued a mother and her daughter just two weeks apart, while emotionally defrauding and bedding other women during the same two-week period. THE MARK OF THE BEAST.

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    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes’ debauchery is aligned with the Beast

    Conquer & Destroy Women

    Evidence shows: Allan love bombs, gaslights, emotionally defrauds, triangulates, and discards women as if they are Satan’s whores instead of God’s sacred gifts.

    Allan is not simply a prolific abuser camouflaging himself behind a carefully curated mask of Christian morality and patriarchal virtue.

    Allan is not a sinner in need of redemption.

    Allan is an active, irredeemable enemy of God.

    “The Beast was given power to wage war against God’s holy people and to conquer them.”

    The women Allan abused are honorable women. Loyal servants of God. Most are mothers who carried heavy crosses to not only survive, but ensure her children thrived against all odds. Many are elderly (30+ years his senior). Some without fathers or brothers to protect them. Open, vulnerable hearts. Perfect targets.

    I vomitted as I penned this post to relieve my throat of choking agony. Viewing evidence of the Beast’s spiritual warfare against a mother and her daughter was a bigger lump than I could swallow. My body had to expel the shock and horror.

    Your Testimony is Spiritual Victory

    God promised triumph over the Beast through testimony:

    “They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death.” —Revelation 12:11 (NIV)

    Beware of carefully curated public images

    The Beast’s destruction is swift, complete, and orchestrated by God

    The Beast does not prevail in his battle with God. Along with a False Prophet, he is thrown alive into the “lake of fire burning with sulfur” (Revelation 19:20), a symbol of eternal torment and final judgment. This act destroys the Beast’s physical and spiritual influence forever, without any resurrection or further opportunity to abuse God’s women like Satan’s whores.

    “And I saw what looked like a sea of glass glowing with fire and, standing beside the sea, those who had been victorious over the beast and its image and over the number of its name. They held harps given them by God.”

    —Revelation 15:2 (NIV)

    Through direct divine judgment, Allan’s reign of terror is over. A Faithful and true leader has emerged, leading the armies of heaven. He calls upon us to use our power, the gifts He bestowed upon us, to help others see Him, His light, His glory, and to experience His faithful love.

    Your Story

    We are committed to protecting your identity. If you have a story or evidence you think we should be aware of, contact us by email.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    When a young, innocent girl experiences such disgust at your hands that she is compelled to threaten you with violence, you are God’s enemy.

    Note on Transparency:

    In the interest of accuracy and fairness, we will publish any credible counter-narrative or evidence Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes wishes to provide in response to the information on this site. As of the date of this publication, he has not requested removal or correction of any content.