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  • The Mask: How Abusers Use Public Image to Disarm You

    When public image is under threat, abusive personalities often pivot into “wholesome overload” — flooding social media with symbols of innocence, purity, and moral authority. Pets. Bible verses. Family rhetoric.

    This is not harmless. It is calculated. The performance says, “Trust me. I am gentle, safe, and righteous.” Meanwhile, the masked persona remains unchanged — sometimes existing in plain sight on other platforms.

    Kittens to Kinks

    This week offered a textbook example: one account displaying images crafted to inspire trust; another filled with connections to female sexual objectification. This contrast is not accidental. Contradiction is the strategy. It keeps victims doubting their own instincts, asking themselves, “Could someone so kind really be harmful?”

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    The mask on Instagram: A symbol of gentleness and virtue, chosen to evoke trust and affection.
    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes
    The reality on X: Public alignment with content built on female sexual objectification.

    Two platforms. Two stories. One truth.

    We love adorable black kittens as much as anyone else. While we strongly encourage pets as a way to experience love, we are just as strongly concerned that carefully curated public imagery is an extension of the double-life playbook: Soft fur in public, hard-core in private.

    If Allan has a new kitten, we wish he and the kitten all the best. But we fear the animal could be used as a prop in efforts to curate a more likable public image.

    4000 Fake Followers

    Survivor Support Team

    Survivors deserve truth, safety, and dignity. If you have experienced emotional, spiritual, or relational abuse, our Survivor Support Team is here to listen, believe you, and connect you with resources to rebuild your life. Contact us in complete confidentiality.

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    See: The Avoidance–Image Management Cycle