Tag: rapist

  • Allan belongs in Jail

    Allan created a false reality for multiple women.

    False reality does not mean fantasy or idealization.

    It means:

    • Ongoing deception
    • Withheld information that would have altered choice
    • Parallel lives and concealed behaviors
    • A relational frame that was structurally false

    The key point:
    She consented to a version of reality that did not exist due to Allan’s deliberate deception.

    That produces rape, not a mutually fun night at the El Moro Hotel.

    This does not imply:

    • She was naive
    • She imagined intimacy
    • The sexual bond was fake

    It means the attachment was formed using corrupted inputs due to Allan’s intentional emotional fraud.

    Why Allan belongs in jail

    Allan’s emotional fraud, multiple sexual violations, and blatant discard tactics caused real-world harm, which he refuses to acknowledge.

    The impact of his conduct is criminal. If he had resources worth suing for, that could potentially help mitigate the damages. But he is not only financially poor, he is spiritually bankrupt.

    Therefore, the only socially suitable consequences is jail, where he can experience the same sexual violations he perpetrated on innocent women: Non-consensual.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes
  • Rape by Deception: Lies as a Weapon Against Women

    Men who obtain sex through lies or false stories are committing a violent act that harms the whole person. When a woman gives consent based on false information, the consent is not real. Her body is being used under false conditions. Her mind is being tricked. Her emotions are being exploited. This is not a mutual choice. This is a violation of her right to decide based on truth.

    Allan Amador Cervantes
    Allan Amador Cervantes

    Sexual consent requires honest information. When a man hides his intentions, hides major facts, or manipulates a woman with false claims of love, marriage, or loyalty, he steals her ability to choose. He forces her to participate in a sexual act she never would have chosen if she had known the truth. Her body is not the only thing that suffers. Her trust, her self belief, and her sense of safety suffer as well.

    This is rape of the soul, body, and mind. It may not look violent on the surface. But the internal damage is deep. Women who have been deceived in this way often feel confusion, self doubt, shame, and grief. They feel invaded, not only physically, but psychologically. When sex is gained through deception, it destroys the foundation of human intimacy. It is a crime against the most private parts of a human being.

    One woman’s story of being tricked into sexual relations with Allan: You Raped Me, Allan.