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Reclaim Your Sovereignty
There is a moment when the silenced becomes the sovereign.
When silence ends. When your boundaries sharpen.
When you stop negotiating with your own truth.
That moment is now.
Regaining your sovereignty begins with recognizing what was stolen from you through emotional abuse and breaking the silence that imprisons you.
We offer you a safe space to return to yourself, with clarity, dignity, and power.
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Survivor Statement
I once likened Allan to “The Beast,” but that was far too generous. He is not the Beast itself—he is its bowels: the foul waste it consumes, digests, and excretes. The anus of the Beast.
I must confront this truth, as I have been: I permitted a man to spiritually rape me, not once, but repeatedly. My boundaries were eroded by his weaponization of love, seduced by his letters and texts. Red flags—especially his contempt for marriage—were drowned out by assurances: “Let’s always be open; you are loved, cherished; I’m not leaving.” All while he courted multiple women simultaneously and treated them with the same violence I experienced: cycles of idealization, devaluation, and discard.
Allan weaponized love as a deliberate distraction from his predation.
Regrets? None. This absolute knowledge is my power, wisdom, and shield—to protect myself and to protect other women.
I am no longer the shattered survivor of Allan’s raw violence. I see him as the biblical Beast incarnate: a motherless monster, propped up by enablers in family and friends. Shame on them.
With divine strength and by naming the truth, I slew this beast inwardly. The gratitude I received along the way gave me the courage to keep speaking, reinforcing the truth that breaking the silence imposed upon us is the path to changing the trajectory of relationship abuse. May this truth safeguard you—and empower you to safeguard others.
Now Allan whimpers as victim, invokes Job scriptures to support his fake persecution, and evades accountability for devastating women through feigned love.
This victory belongs to all of us and it serves the greater good. Expose what you witness, even if you must whisper it through strategic channels for safety’s sake. Prevent another sister from the Beast’s bowels.