Deeply disappointed to learn that Pamela Sue Martin pulled her son, Nickolas Allen, into her affair with Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes. For most mothers, this would seem unthinkable.
On 25 May 2026, a forwarded letter from Nickolas Allen landed in our inbox. Nickolas made allegations aimed at taking this website down. Using AI to craft “legalese,” he stepped up as her legal representative, asserting that his mother is a “private individual.” He made nuanced legal threats by highlighting he is “taking screenshots,” among other things.
(We are all taking screenshots. That’s online culture!)
The concern is that Pamela sent Nickolas to do her bidding when there’s no obvious reason why she could not do it herself. Pamela has the name, the number, the email, the WhatsApp, the socials, even the physical address. Even if she did not possess the highly visible contact details, Allan should rush to her rescue with the information he has stored on his phone. Moreover, our Contact page is explicit: direct correspondence is treated confidentially.
Yet it appears Pamela sent Nickolas to fight her battle.
The nuanced threats of a lawsuit contained within Nickolas’ letter cause confusion: What’s Pamela’s chief claim? How is she harmed? Is she embarassed that her boyfriend cheated on her for years, exposing her to another woman’s sexual energy through her vagina, through her mouth, through her heart, and lied to her about it? Is she upset that Allan’s family and friends were complicit in Allan’s lies by looking straight into her eyes and betraying her with complete silence about the other woman, who they had brunch a day earlier? Or is she more upset that the silence about the abuse is broken?
Nick did not deserve to be used as a proxy in a war that is not his!
As for Nickolas representing Allan, if that’s his intention, Pamela would be prudent to persuade her son to stay far away from that unfortunate role. This website has previously cautioned women: Keep your children out of Allan’s reach. Do not underestimate the danger.
Allan was actively managing multiple women simultaneously (two of which he was sexually active with), keeping all tethered for years, which is a specific and deliberate form of control. DANGER.
Allan should fight the wars he started without involving Nickolas as his expendable cannon fodder.
If Allan is content allowing his girlfriend’s son to do his bidding, we certainly underestimated his cowardice. Curiously, it appears Pamela did not ask her boyfriend, Allan — who is the source of this website and who should serve as her protector — to act on her behalf. Rather, she sent her son. That choice speaks volumes.
We Do Not Involve Our Sacred Children in Our Intimate Affairs!
Reminder, Allan Amador Cervantes, used his minor nephews and his cousin’s child as alibis to secretly bed Pamela. She should not follow his morally bankrupt lead by sending her blessing to fight in Allan’s war.
Think sensibly. Stop overriding what your gut is telling you. Get Nickolas out of this QUICKLY. He has his own life to live.
It must be rather awkward for Nickolas knowing, if he is being honest with himself, that Allan — only 8 years his senior — hopes to be Pamela’s heir, or at least one of her heirs. Allan could be Nickolas’ brother. Thirty years younger than Nickolas’ mother. You don’t need a biochemistry degree to figure all this out, right?
Allan is an impotent character unworthy of defending. Men like Allan — who run parallel relationships for years, who gaslight with that level of skill, who let a 35 year old man file complaints on their behalf — they don’t typically become better men. They become more careful.
Pamela should direct all her protective energy and positive light onto her son.