“I sometimes try to make excuses for him to argue with myself that he really is not THAT bad. Maybe he lied because he didn’t want to hurt me. But that argument quickly falls apart because the truth was the path of least resistance; the truth is the one thing that would have brought peace in the most graceful and dignified manner.
No, he acted out of evil intent. He intentionally deceived me (and her). He’s still hiding the truth even three years later.
The lies were not about protecting me. The lies were about cheating me, controlling knowledge, preventing me from informed decision-making. For his sake. For his sexual and predatorial deviance.
I cannot make any excuse for him that stands up to reason. Simply put, Allan is a predator, a rapist, an abuser, a liar, a manipulator. And his family are enablers.
The Amador Cervantes clan are the potholes of society.”
–Survivor of Allan’s abuse
