Tag: fraud

  • You are in an Abusive Relationship

    How do you know if you are in an abusive relationship with Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes?

    How do you feel? What behaviors are you exhibiting?

    • Trying to find information to confirm or disprove your intuition
    • Disbelief
    • Don’t know who or what to believe
    • Distressed
    • Suspicious
    • Anxious
    • Depressed
    • Dumfounded
    • Isolated

    Any of those experiences ring a bell?

    When a psychologist told me I was in an abusive relationship, I felt shock. She said rather bluntly, “I’ve been treating patients for 35 years, both men and women. I am a Mexican woman. I know this culture. What you are describing is abuse. He’s not acting like this because “his brother is sick and dying.” He’s cheating on you.

    I refused to believe her. I did not want to believe her. Now, her piercing accuracy haunts me.

    I confronted Allan about being abusive. He was incensed.

    The dramatic denial was my first clue.

    Allan is simply gross.

  • Naming Names

    When you ask Allan to name the women he has been intimately involved with over the past six years while you have been involved with him also, what does he say?

    First name, last name?

    When you ask him for access to his WhatsApp, including “locked chats,” what does he say?

    Locked chats…what does he say?

    Here’s how to find locked chats on iPhone:

    1. Open WhatsApp
    2. On the main Chats screen, scroll up past your pinned chats, toward the very top
    3. You’ll see a “Locked Chats” folder, which requires Face ID, fingerprint, or your PIN to open

    Did you find CRC? PSM?

    How about Jody Waterman? Aurea Gomez? DB? Olga? Kristin? Claudia? Have we missed any of the elderly women Allan pursues?

    (Two minors intentionally unnamed.)

  • Allan Cheats on Everone

    Allan Alexander Amador Cervantes Cheats on Everyone!

    Lisa was a 75-year old American grandmother who he arranged to meet at Cafe Exquisito in La Paz. When she confronted him about flirting with her, he responded that there was no reason not to—despite the multiple women who thought he loved them.

    What a dick. Pendejo.

    Then he has the audacity to act offended that covert operations were an absolute necessity to unveil the truth. Typical gaslilghting abuse tactic: Reverse the blame, one of Allan’s favorite violences against women.